October 16, 2019
What is a Dominant-Submissive Relationship all about?
Dating is one of those things that almost every person approaches with at least some sense of dread at one time or another. After all, dealing with relationships is complicated and sometimes it is almost impossible to figure out what it is that the other person is really looking for. People that find themselves struggling in relationships often feel that going on more dates will give them more options, only to find themselves struggling with even more complicated issues as a result of their increased efforts. There are a number of reasons that this happens, ranging from an inability to communicate effectively to the fact that people sometimes want completely different things from their relationships. The good news is that it does not necessarily have to be this difficult.
One of the ways to take the fear and the dread out of dating is to keep everything lighthearted in the beginning. There is no need to be fearful or dreadful about a first date because it is exactly that, a first date. There is no need for there to be a second date if things do not go well. A first date should be looked upon as an opportunity to have an open and honest conversation with another individual in order to find out more about that person and in turn, allow that individual to find out more about you.
Well, you know, first and foremost, a Dom/sub relationship is a very energetic and dynamic between the two partners. And also, the dominant leads, guides, and protects the submissive. We all know, that the submissive is the baby girl or the servant who pleases the dominant. And most D/s partners limit their dynamic to sexual activities but the truth is the relationship may be applied in interesting ways beyond sex. For instance, the dominant can create a simple rule for the submissive such as asking for permission to go out on weekends. Where I am from there’s a dominatrix near me in our town.
What it’s really like to be in a Dom/sub relationship
You know there will be consequences. The dynamic may as well be a set of strict rules and complex responsibilities that make the dominant feel more in control of the body and mind of the submissive. And we all know this to be true in any case. But do not confuse the Dom/sub relationship for a master/slave setting. D/s is a lifestyle. So, If someone tells you they are in a Dom/sub relationship, you should know that their life, especially the sex aspect of it, would very well entails power play. Most partners might switch their roles as they please – a man can dominate for a while and then become submissive at some point, too.
Ways “a submissive” fit into the overall category of “BDSM”
The dominance and submission is just one part of BDSM. Because, it encompasses a much larger spectrum including bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism as well. And you know, generally for me there’s not many differences, between the two , but some people might identify more closely with one aspect or another.
Now. please do not confuse D/s with S&M, which is sadomasochism. Because, we all should know, S&M is the dynamic where one person (the sadist) enjoys inflicting pain, often sexually, on someone who enjoys receiving it (the masochist). And with that being said, some of the people might try and incorporate some level of S&M into their D/s dynamic — but more often than not, it’s mild to moderate and it will take the form of spanking, which, let’s be honest, many “younger” couples have tried in the heat of passion.
And also, very important, please note that BDSM is divided into three areas: BD, bondage and discipline; DS, Dominance and submission; and SM, for sadomasochism. Not everyone combines all areas, nor do they do so in the same ways; so that’s we all know, that it’s up to the couple to decide upon and consent to together. Subs and Doms , join & find a mistress, master or sub near you. Also, many couples don’t even categorize themselves under these labels and simply call acts like blindfolding or handcuffing “kinky.”
You know, what really turns me on is has the most intense cerebral connection — the mind play and the feelings it conjures in me, sometimes all day long (the brain is, after all, the biggest sex organ). All the words, the orders, the reprimands, the tone and the downright audacity for him to say it all: And never would I allow anyone else to speak to me in this way, or, over all, to have such deep access into my mind, body and heart.